Guests Hail Charm’s Baby Shower as a Great Success

Fifty-four guests (who had concluded that insanity isn’t catching) attended Charm’s Baby Shower at
Barn 18, Golden Gait Stables, this past Saturday. After a brief torrential downpour (see “FRAIN” – n., Florida rain, as in the kind that makes you pull over on I-95 because you can’t see a damn thing but it’s sunny across the street and it only lasts for 10 minutes) required relocating six yellow linen-clothed tables to the shed row, the weather was relatively cooperative but humid. Team Charm was in great form, getting everything ready for the distinguished guests. Charm was expertly braided in purple and pink (Rona Platt, whose day job is General Counsel of a large company) and her hooves were liberally bathed in glitter (later obscured by a self-applied mud wrap). Table centerpieces of multicolored Gerber daisies in vivid spring colors were expertly arranged (by Lori Hochman, daytime office administrator) in cowboy-boot vases anchored with sliced carrots for use later as an equine snack. Pink, purple and turquoise cowboy hats and bandanas adorned tables festively sprinkled with tiny plush ponies, set off against mare-and-foal themed tumblers and serviettes. 

The event commenced with modified Bingo, requiring guests to mix and mingle to find out who had had plastic surgery, who could do a cartwheel, and who had unpolished toes. The winner was Jorja Williams, Esq., although Yoshimi Smith, Esq., was a close runner-up and protested the judge’s awarding of the top prize to Madame Williams. Next, guests enjoyed a delicious lunch of gourmet salad (two choices), artisan rolls, tender chicken piccata, and fresh pasta primavera, complimented by a lovely champagne punch. After the repast, guests competed in equine-themed trivia, which they reported was quite challenging. The winner, Kim the Classy from Barn 18 (dressed to the nines), scored a record 17/20, perhaps surpassing the crowd with her knowledge of Mr. Ed’s owner’s last

name (Post), as well as her literary expertise (Anna Sewell as the author of Black Beauty; Boxer as the male horse from Animal Farm). Dessert consisted of a delicate carrot cake and fruit a la table, with a
special chocolate offering to Table 2 in honor of Rona Platt’s 50^th birthday. To end the fete, guests enjoyed Pin The Foal On Charm (Nancy Nassau, designer; photo credit copyright Briana Hassibi), and left with numerous mementos including miniscule feed buckets filled with jelly beans and tastefully wrapped in cellophane with multi-colored pipe cleaners (Paula Albright Creations). Guests also enjoyed contributing their name suggestions for Charm’s foal-in-utero on a three-dimensional multi-media presentation (special effects by Lohr Family Enterprises).

Throughout her celebration, Charm was the model of, well, charm and humor, delighting attendees with a run and attempted-buck, as she nibbled on a centerpiece and tried to sample the punch. Although hesitant at first, Charm did seem to enjoy her carrot cake dessert, and then topped that off with the feather boa from Ms. Platt’s birthday chapeau. Charm posed for numerous pictures with guests, and proved that she is as photogenic as she is charismatic.

As a result of the guests’ generosity, many essential dollars were raised for animal-related charities throughout the US.

The human hostess asked to express her gratitude to all those on Team Charm who assisted in making the event a success (in no particular order): Briana Hassibi, Denise Molina, Jessica Toresco, Denise Dorchak, Paula Albright, Susan Stutz, Rona Platt, Nancy Nassau, Wendy and Katie Lohr, Tiffany Child, the proprietors of Devine Bistro, Elizabeth Hollman of Everlasting Events, and last but not least, Jonathan and Emilio.

Slide Show of the event 

Amy B. Beller, Esq.

Homestretch

As of March 3, we've made it 310 days into the pregnancy. According to my very sophisticated
Google research, the fetus would be viable if born now. Whew! Charm is really getting LARGE, which is either the foal getting bigger or the 24/7 hay. (Or the pumpkin bread from Starbucks that she loves so much.) We can feel the foal moving and on the last sonogram he/she actually winked at us. Winky?

So when can we expect the foal and what's the plan? Apparently mares are not always cooperative in scheduling delivery to coincide with predictions. (Imagine that.) Most foals are born between 320 and 350 days. We hope to see signs of impending delivery -- bagging (filing up) of the udder, restlessness, packing an overnight bag and cursing at the baby daddy -- so that we can be there for the big event. My guess is Charm will fool us and do her thing quietly by herself. We are installing a camera so if we're not there in person, at least we can go to the videotape. And no, if it's a boy, there will NOT be a bris.

To celebrate the anticipated birth, we are having a ladies-only baby shower for Charm on 3/22. Silly, yes, but hey, it's original! If you're a fan of the blog, feel free to stop by Golden Gait Stables between 12 and 2 pm. Food, games, and party favors ... and of course a photo op with Charm!

And by the way, Charm's baby is not the only cause for celebration. Jordan turned 18 on 2/10 and a few days later, he was accepted to UF! Go Gators! We're very proud of him and we know he will have a great experience in Gainesville.

Big events, exciting times, and wonderful friends and family to share it all with. Life is good, and I am grateful.

And finally, just a little plug for Green Motion Tours. I finally got out there on the Segway tour of the Marjory Stoneman Douglas Everglades Habitat. Wow, it's awesome. We saw so many birds, gators, and even a coyote. It's really special -- check it out.

Stay tuned for THE BIG NEWS....

Third Trimester Revelations

Third Trimester Revelations

As anticipated, the holiday season was busy and festive. Thanks to everyone who sent chocolate and other goodies to my office. Which leads to a question: why isn't there a Chocoholics Anonymous? (Don't tell me if there actually is one, because I'm not going anyway.)

In the short time since my last blog update, there have been a number of revelations which coincide with the start of Charm's third trimester. They are random and mostly unrelated, so here goes:

1. Charm is not a good neighbor. We learned this when she meandered up to Captain's stall at dinner time (okay, she was loose grazing, which I guess is my fault but I was watching her, just couldn't react quickly enough). Captain did not want to share his grain, and he promptly bit Charm in the face. He caught her on the bone above her left eye, and opened up a pretty deep gash. This was the day of the barn holiday party, and Dr. Caputo was out holiday shopping. We called Palm Beach Equine, and who should be on call but Charm's fertility vet, Dr. Bob Smith. Dr. Smith drove down from Loxahatchee and did a top-notch stitching job.

2. Dr. Bob Smith's daughter, Jennifer, is a 3L at UF Law School who actually has experience in probate litigation. I wouldn't have known this if Charm had not tried to snatch Captain's dinner. We will stay in touch with Jennifer as she finishes school and takes the Bar Exam. If any of my Florida lawyer-colleagues is looking for talent, you will want to meet Jennifer.

3. My uterus was 30% smaller than an average uterus, despite the fact that I carried Jordan to full term and he was born at 7 pounds 10 ounces.

4. I say "was" because said smallish uterus and I parted ways surgically on December 23. I feel entitled to a Guinness record because I rode Charm exactly 5 days after surgery. The revelation here is that robotic arthroscopic surgery is MUCH easier to recover from than traditional surgery. Thanks Dr. Andrea Bayer!

5. Yoshi and I had some personality profile analyses done for everyone in our office. I was told that I should NEVER work for anyone else. Thanks, Einstein. It would have been helpful to have that little tip 20 years ago. Continued apologies for all those who attempted to supervise me over the years -- you know who you are.

6. Charm, who is usually lazy and happy to be part of the herd, can run like a bat out of hell back to the barn at suppertime when she thinks she can get away with it. So ends Charm's career as a p/t trail hack.

Meet, "Esther Uterus"

7. My knee, which I twisted slipping and falling in the shower in December, strangely hurts worst in my sleep -- unless I sleep on my back with my legs propped up. So, Andrew finally gets that adjustable bed. (Tom Cunningham, a neighbor, calls it the "Medicare Part D Bed").

8. On the website www.iheartguts.com, one can actually purchase a plush toy uterus, or pretty much any organ. Check it out. Picture of Esther Uterus (thanks Rona and Bob) is attached.


9. The movie version of Wolf of Wall Street was not as interesting as the book. I actually worked on the legal team for brokerage Stratton Oakmont when I was an associate at Squadron Ellenoff in NY. Interesting times. The movie was entertaining but there was a lot of artistic license. My biggest issue with the movie was that while Leonardo DiCaprio is a great actor, his portrayal of Jordan Belfort lacked the Jewish ethnicity that I think was required. He seemed more Italian than anything.

10. Totally random but I learned last night (thanks to Google) that the Guiness Record for World's tallest living horse is held by Big Jake, a Belgian from Michigan, who stands at 20 hands 2.75 inches. That's two feet taller than Charm. He weighted 240 pounds at birth! His dam surely did not have a smallish uterus.


Two and a half months left and counting down ... stay tuned!!!

Amy B. Beller

SEASON'S GREETINGS AND ALL THAT....

SEASON'S GREETINGS AND ALL THAT....

I feel like once you're in December, you blink and you're in mid-January. So before this holiday season gallops by, it's time for another blog update.

Charm is now in month 7 of her pregnancy. Thanks to my law partner and friend Yoshi, Charm had a professional photography session recently -- one of the photos is to the right. (Photographer is Barbara Bower.) Charm does look wider to me, or at least fuller in the belly, but it could be all those holiday parties. Foal-to-be is now between 9-17 lbs and 14-28 inches, and has hair on his/her tail. Planning for Charm's baby shower (March 22) is under way. Yup, I'm really having a baby shower for a horse. It did occur to me that I should consider also having a graduation party for my son, Jordan. After observing that I have been planning a horsey baby shower and hadn't even started a plan for my only child's high school graduation (what's your point, Jordan?), he declined. Drew has promised him a graduation cruise, so don't feel too sorry for the boy. College apps are in, and we are waiting on responses... Gators? 'Noles? We'll see. (The Seminoles have a HORSE, Renegade, as part of its mascot ... need we say anything more?)

For Hanukkah, Drew and Jordan gave me a Breyer's Horse Mystery Foal Surprise set, which has a mare, a stallion, and a "surprise" foal hidden behind a closed stall door. (Picture attached.) Drew picked out a set with a black and white stallion, but he had to buy a second set to try to match Charm's coloring. (He picked a palomino -- there were no buckskin paints.) The "surprise foal" is a black and white overo paint. We might get close with a black and white tobiano foal -- since Mr. Bo Buttons is homozygous tobiano, we will definitely have a tobiano baby, which means color and white across the body, white legs, color face with possible white markings.

I am strangely nervous about Charm's pregnancy -- more nervous than I was when I was pregnant myself 18 years ago. I had an interesting pregnancy, with my mother going through cancer surgery and treatment, and Drew spending a month in a hospital being treated for MRSA. It was a stressful time but I had a strong bond with Jordan (we called him Cubby when he was in utero) because he and I went through all of that together. I never really worried about his health though -- not the way that I worry about Charm's baby. Not sure what that's about, except that maybe it's that Charm cannot communicate (at least not verbally) how she's feeling. Maybe I should not have picked now to re-read All Creatures Great And Small, James Herriot's autobiography of his life as a country vet. It's a great book -- funny and well-written -- but A LOT OF STUFF HAPPENS with animal pregnancy and birth. Charm seems happy and healthy and I will just have to go with that for now. And, I'm going back to junk TV instead of reading. Masters of Sex, anyone?

Wishing everyone a fabulous holiday season and the very best New Year. Cheers.

Amy B. Beller

HALFWAY THERE!

Charm had her five month sonogram on September 28^th by Dr. Bob Smith. All looks normal – heartbeat, backbone, and clearly only one baby in there. I hope Dr. Smith isn’t following this blog, but considering what he has to do to complete a trans-rectal sonogram on a horse, I don’t think he charges enough. I may have to deal with a lot of horseshit in my profession, but it is the theoretical kind, and when I say my hands are full of it, I don’t mean it literally. Anyway, according to my internet research, the foal at five months is between 6-11 lbs and 8-14 inches long – roughly the size of a human baby. Jordan was 7 lbs 10 oz. and 19 inches at birth. (See the below attached chart – pretty cool stuff.)

Size of Fetus (unborn foal)

Period of Gestation	Weight of Fetus	Fetal Length	Other
1 month		¾ inch	Vesicle 1” diameter
2 months	1/6 oz	2-3 inches	Vesicle football sized
3 months	2-4 oz	3-6 inches	Vesicle basketball size
4 months	2-3 lbs	5-9 inches	Hair on lips
5 months	6-11 lbs	8-14 inches	Hair on eyelids
6 months	7-15 lbs	14-24 inches	Hair on nostrils
7 months	9-17 lbs	14-28 inches	Hair on tail
8 months	9-33 lbs	20-32 inches	Hair on mane, back, ears
9 months	37-44 lbs	24-36 inches	Thin hair throughout body
10 months	55-99 lbs	28-52 inches	Mane and tail developed
11 months	66-132 lbs	30-58 inches	Normal hair coat

To celebrate the great pregnancy check-up (not really), Drew and I went off to Freeport, Bahamas, for a few days, where I unashamedly cheated on Charm by riding a gorgeous buckskin mare, Fiji, in the ocean. Fiji is the one on the bottom (looks like I have to recommit myself to my diet). She was great, although she did share Charm’s penchant for trailride eating. If you find yourself on Grand Bahamas, make sure to visit Linda and Chris at Pinetree Stables for a really fabulous riding experience.

Finally, congratulations to third-time-grandma, Mona Fisher, and the entire family, on the birth of Aria Gem on 10/7. I don’t have Aria’s birth weight, but safe to say she’s about the size of a five month old foal-in-utero!

-AB